Oprah and cheating

No this isn't the rumor mill. Just two unrelated thoughts for the day...

Someone was trying to convince me yesterday that Oprah has started a church. While I'm certainly not the expert at all things Oprah, I happen to know that A New Earth is not a church. It's a book. She is hosting an online class about the book. It is spiritual, but not necessarily religious. Matter-of-fact, you don't even have to be religious at all to benefit from the book. If O had started a church, the world would know, and we'd all be wearing the tshirt.

The other thing that seems to come up quite a bit lately is the following question:
If you saw someone you know absolutely, positively cheating on their spouse, would you tell the spouse?

For me, it totally depends on who gets me in the divorce. If I am closer to the wife, then I would never tell the husband if she had been cheating. If I saw her husband cheating, I would tell her asap. Closer to the husband- the same in reverse. If I feel they are equally friends of mine, I wouldn't say anything either way.