RIP Carrie Fisher and Debbie Reynolds

Thursday, December 29, 2016

My gosh, so sad. Carrie Fisher was so funny, and honest and open about her life, giving a voice to many people suffering with mental illness and addiction. Debbie Reynolds was a legend as an actress, singer and dancer. Mother and daughter passing within a day of each other is heart-wrenching. Hope they're laughing together in the hereafter.

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RIP George Michael

Wednesday, December 28, 2016

Sadness.

Such an incredible talent and generous citizen of the world, gone too soon.



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Sunday Stealing: The Xmas Questions of 2016

Saturday, December 24, 2016

Settling in for a relaxing Saturday Christmas Eve! Merry Christmas everyone!

Sunday Stealing: The Xmas Questions of 2016

1. Do you send out Xmas cards and if so how many do you send?

I haven't sent cards in years. When I did, I mailed about 30.

2. Do you write and send a holiday letter to describe your year?

Another thing I haven't done for years. The last one was 2008. I loved sending holiday letters! I kept them light, including a recipe, gift guides, cartoons, etc. Not your standard letters. I was thrilled that people looked forward to them, much like I anticipate Gib's hilarious annual New Year's letter, which never disappoints!

3. What do you think of photo cards?
Love them! I especially like getting them from old friends I don't see regularly.

4. How about the tree thing – do you have one every year? Do you prefer a real or artificial?
I prefer artificial, because I don't like things that require maintenance, especially at Christmas time. We've had one every year, except for the first two years after we got the kittens. I was afraid they would destroy my special ornaments. Turns out, the just rub their faces on the lower branches and play with the bottom level ornaments. I just put kitty-proof ornaments there.

5. Describe your typical tree (size, decorations, type). If you don’t have a tree, do you decorate and if so, tell us about it. (If you don’t decorate make up a story here…)

Our tree is a 7' pre-lit evergreen. The lights are multi-colored. All our ornaments are from places we've traveled or activities we've done over the years as a family.

6. Do you hang up stockings? Whose names are on them (and relationships)? 
I put up stockings for Jeff (the hubby), Lauren (the kiddo), me, and the kitties- Kiptyn and Maya.

7. Your favorite Xmas movie(s) are?
Love Actually, Frosty the Snowman, The Year Without a Santa Claus

8. Tell us about an Xmas movie you hate.
Bad Santa. It's just obnoxious.

9. What’s favorite Xmas Song(s)?
Oh Holy Night, Blue Christmas, Merry Christmas Darling, Underneath the Tree, I'll be Home for Christmas

10. What holiday song makes you want to hurl?
"Christmas Time is Here" from A Charlie Brown Christmas. It gives me the heebie jeebies.

11. What do you prefer for your holiday meal?

I'm not picky, but we usually have the typical American holiday dinner.

12. When do you open your gifts?
Christmas morning, like normal people

13. Do you buy gifts for your pet?
sometimes

14. What's the worst gift you've ever gotten?
I absolutely hate getting any clothing items other than A&M shirts/hats/socks/etc.

15. Do you ever travel for the holiday?
We almost always go to my in-laws' house in DFW.

16. Did you see Santa as a child?
I visited him at the mall, but I never saw him at the house.

17. Have you ever gone caroling?
Several times when I was growing up.

18. Do you drive around and look at the Xmas lights? 
Yes

19. Have you ever had a white Christmas?
Yep. I lived in Kansas when I was 5-6. Also, Dallas gets snow every few years at Christmas. One night we got trapped out in a crazy snowstorm and had to drive 15 miles of icy, snow-blind freeways to get to Jeff's parents' house from my brother-in-law's house. Scary!

20. Do you know how to ice skate? If yes, when did you skate the last time? 
Yes, but I haven't skated in 12-13 years.

21. Are we crazy for thinking that the holiday season is WAY too commercial?
Nope. It's WAY too commercial.

22. Have you ever worked Xmas eve or Xmas day?
Nope, thank goodness. Just lucky.

23. What are your Xmas pet peeves?
I don't think I have any!

24. What’s your favorite thing about the holidays?
Getting together with friends and family, and the change of pace with decorations, Christmas music, vacations. Also great movies!
 
25. Here's your chance to say something significant to our players. Go for it!
To the players and non-players, I wish you a very Merry Christmas if you celebrate it! If you don't celebrate Christmas, enjoy your day off!

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Nocturnal Animals

Friday, December 23, 2016

Saw Nocturnal Animals yesterday. It was really good up until the very last moment. Then we weren't sure what to make of it.

I wasn't a fan of the first three minutes or so, though. Good grief. It just went on and on, and was SO incredibly random. Susan thought it was terrible, too, and it was her exhibit, so there you go. After that, I was sucked into the story and never let go.

Amy Adams and Isla Fisher in the same film! They're long lost twins, right?! Just when you thought you'd never seen them together, so maybe they ARE the same person... they do a movie together.

Anyhoo... I liked the film a LOT. Visually, it is beautiful. It seamlessly travels from present to past to writer's imagination and back around again. There are differences in color and textures among the three worlds, taking us from dusty west Texas to trendy LA to a couple's college days in the ol' ATX. I just couldn't wait to see what would happen from minute to minute.

I thought I had heard there was a surprising twist, so I was waiting for it. It is a great story, catapulting us into a very dramatic, but mysterious ending. We had to go to the net to get a crowd perspective on it. I'm not the only person to say out loud when the lights came up, "What was the point of all this?" I got The Matrix, y'all. It shouldn't be as complicated to figure out what happened in this movie.

Was revenge the point of it, for her leaving him all those years ago? I think that was the point. I mean there was an art piece in the gallery that said REVENGE, for heaven's sake. How many clues do we need? If so, I think the ending was too softened and needed a little more obvious realization and some sort of reaction on her part, that would have made it more clear. Perhaps Ford didn't want it to be that definitive.

See it for the sheer beauty and compelling story. Also, it will keep you and your movie date talking about it all the way home!

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Calendar Kitchen

Tuesday, December 20, 2016

Our kitchen remodel made the remodeling company's 2017 calendar! We're August. I guess all those hours selecting finishes and accessories paid off.

My beloved 96-year-old Grandpa is still on Hospice. A couple of times in the past few months, he has taken turns for the worst, but he's perked up both times and is hanging in there. We'll visit him next week. My aunt Kerstin has been sending frequent text and photo updates to all of us on his status. Since she's sending them to two generations of family, she was calling him Granddad/Dad, but over the weeks, it's become G-Dad. Love it! I call it his rapper name.

Sunday Stealing: The Here-to-Serve 16 Questions

1. Which is worse? Being gossiped about or being lied to?

Being lied to. Everyone talks about everyone, and I honestly don't care about that, but being honest is very important in any relationship.

2. What is your favorite "Starbucks" drink? Or if you have better taste, Dunkin’ Donuts? 
I love plain old Dunkin' Donuts coffee. Iced mocha is my favorite Starbucks drink.

3. Name an embarrassing moment (Make it good).
I always go back to tripping in the courtyard in high school, during lunch when everyone and their dog was out there (not literally, because people didn't bring their dogs everywhere then).  I was wearing high heels and a dress. My girlfriends and I were walking and laughing about something. My heel got stuck in a crack and I fell to the ground. I was right next to the entrance to a classroom building, so I immediately ran in there. It was absolutely hilarious, but totally embarrassing.

4. Is it hard for you to ask some to forgive you when you have wronged them?
I just apologize. I don't know that I've specifically asked someone to forgive me. I just assume they will, if they accept my apology.

4. Who do you wish you could meet?
Michael Symon. He's too cool.

5. Best food comes from which country?

USA! USA! USA!

6. Do you like small talk, or deep conversations?

deep conversations

7. Who do you most want to encourage this year?
Lauren

8. If those who know you best gave you one piece of advice, what would they say? Would they be right? What will you do about it?
Take a vacation! They would be right, but I probably won't.

9. How often do you get real sick?
very rarely

10. Are you a person who has a whole lot of acquaintances, or just a few very close friends?
I've lived here quite a while, so I do have a lot of casual acquaintances from various groups, but my life is mostly centered on a few very close friends.

11. If you could cure a disease, or heal a sickness, which one would you choose?
cancer

12. What was your favorite book of 2016?
Didn't read a book in 2016. Not one.

13. What was one of your biggest accomplishments in 2016?
Making a very successful transition from full-time corporate job to part-time contractor. I didn't even want to do the contract at first, but it's working out well!

14. If you could be guaranteed a spot on the reality show "Survivor", would you go?

Um, no. I don't even like to camp. I would be most likely to play "The Mole," but only with Anderson.

15. Which is worse? Shopping for jeans or a bathing suit?
Jeans. So many factors are at play- height, body shape, style of jeans, waist to hip ratio, fabric... Bathing suits are stretchy and adjustable.

16. How old was your oldest living relative (still living or in the past)? 
I think my grandpa is the oldest. He'll be 97 in February.

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Hootie!

Monday, December 19, 2016

Lauren tells me that her friends in their 20's who are married and starting to have babies aren't going to do the Santa/Tooth Fairy/Easter Bunny thing. They don't want to "lie" to their kids. Whaaa...?!  I guess magic is out, too? Ariel and Superman are just cartoons? How sad.

Jeff and I were driving around in the country on Saturday, and happened upon the Andalusia whiskey distillery in Blanco. We barely missed the last tour, but we did a tasting, which was cool. The bar is a nice place to hang out. We also visited the cows out back.

While we were out that afternoon, I was telling Jeff about Culture Map. It's a site with a fabulous event calendar for each of the major Texas cities. The Austin calendar has all the main happenings around Austin, and doesn't include every band playing every tiny venue, which clutters every other Austin event calendar. I really appreciate live music, but I have always wished it would be a separate calendar, so you don't have to scroll through 1000 events to find the Pecan Street Festival.

Me: I don't mind seeing a major act like Hootie and the Blowfish on an Austin calendar, I just don't want to sift through hundreds of coffee shop shows.
Jeff (laughing): Every time you refer to a generic band, it's Hootie and the Blowfish.
Me: It is?
Jeff: Yes! And I don't associate you with them at all. I would expect you to say...
Me: Maroon 5?
Jeff: ...Prince or Adam Ant or something. Anyone but Hootie and the Blowfish.
Me: Well, you gotta love Hootie.

(Prince and Adam Ant?! I thought Hootie and the Blowfish was a throwback!)

Lyrics of the Day

...When I wake to find the solace of 
all that we've become
I can't wait to make the promises

that I've been leery of...

"I Will Wait" Hootie and the Blowfish


Saturday 9: O, Holy Night (1967)
Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) This beloved carol takes its lyrics from a French poem. What else can we thank the French for?

the metric system

2) How well do you know "O, Holy Night?" Without looking up the lyrics, could you sing along with Ella?
Oh heck yeah. It's my favorite Christmas Carol.

3) In order to get this record into stores in time for Christmas 1967, Ella had to record this in late July. So let's reverse that. Now that it's Christmas time, what do you miss most about summer?
traveling light- small purse, no jacket or hat, wearing flip flops

4) Sam is crazy about the open toed pumps she'll be wearing to holiday parties, but that means she needs to get a pedi. Will you be at a salon between now and year-end?
Nope.

5) Will you be consuming any egg nog this holiday season? And if you do, will it be spiked?
I may have some, but I don't like it with alcohol. Ick!

6) Thinking of holiday cuisine, what's your favorite Christmas cookie?
My mom always made thumbprint cookies at Christmas. Hers have frosting instead of jelly. SO good.

Thumbprint Cookies

2 1/4 c Flour - Sifted
1 c Butter
1/2 c Brown Sugar
2 Egg - Separated
1 1/2 ts Vanilla
1 1/2 c Walnuts - Chopped
1 can Vanilla Frosting

Sift flour onto wax paper.

Cream butter with brown sugar until fluffy-light in a medium bowl. Beat in egg yolks and vanilla. Stir in flour, half at a time, blending well into a stiff dough.

Beat egg whites until foamy in a pie plate. Sprinkle walnuts on wax paper.

Roll dough, 1 tsp at a time, into balls. Roll each in egg white, then walnuts to coat. Place 2" apart on large cookie sheets. Press a hollow into each with fingertip.

Bake at 350 for 12 minutes, until firm and lightly golden. Cool completely. Tint one half of the frosting with red food coloring and the other with green. Fill each cooled cookie with a dollop of red or green frosting.

7) Sam knows she will get a bottle of red wine from her boss, because that's what he gives his staff every year. Is there a gift you can count on receiving?
I don't get the same thing every year from anyone.

8) What one gift would you most like to receive this year? Do you think anyone will get it for you?
I want silicone covers for leftovers, so I don't have to use so much plastic wrap. I'm pretty sure I will get some.

9) This time of year is big for charitable fundraising. Here's your chance to plug a cause or organization that's near and dear to you.
We support Texas A&M University and MD Anderson Cancer Center!

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Creeper Story of the Year

Sunday, December 18, 2016

Friday night, when we were grabbing a burger for dinner, there was a disheveled man slumped into a corner booth, talking on a cell phone. He was speaking loudly, talking to a girl. He seemed upset, and I thought maybe we should GET THE HECK OUT OF THERE. Then the conversation suddenly turned more pleasant, and they got onto video chat of some sort. It was obviously the first time they'd seen each other.

He went on and on about how pretty she was and how no one was ever going to tell either one of them anymore how they weren't good enough, etc. He professed his love for her, obviously for the first time, and asked when she was coming to see him in Texas. Soon he asked if her mom and dad were home. (Where is Chris Hanson when you need him?)

After a few minutes he said, "How old do you think I AM?! I'm only 38/48!"

38/48?

He mentioned he could "kick anyone's ass" because he'd spent 12 years in prison and 15 on the street. (Grab the food. We're OUT.) Well, that accounts for 27 of his 38/48 years.

At some point he said he had been in the military. He explained that his record says he was only in for two months, but he was actually in for a few years. Evidently, after two months, he was selected for special ops and when you complete special ops service, the government erases your records... AND YOUR MEMORY. "That's how they do it these days." Mmmkay.

"Hold on. I need some weed."

He leaves all his crap (jacket, bottles of water, money) on the table and exits the restaurant to smoke outside the door. We're in the 'burbs, y'all. People smoke their weed at home, not at a restaurant. ;)

He comes back in, still video chatting. We left.

That was the most disturbing meal experience I've had since the McDonald's incident when the kiddos were little. The manager had to call the police to remove a guy fussing with some electronic device and talking to himself at his table next to us. Laura and I stayed there longer than we should have as well. Ha!


Friday Five: Celluloid Heroes

1. What movie most recently impressed you with its score or soundtrack?

Bad Moms 

2. What movie most recently impressed you with its costumes or makeup?
Ex Machina

3.What movie most recently impressed you with its scenic backdrops?
La La Land

4. What movie most recently impressed you with its originality?
Passengers

5. What movie most recently impressed you with its dialogue?
Brooklyn

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Christmas-Ready

Tuesday, December 13, 2016

My gift wrapping is complete! Mailed off the mailed things this morning. It's all spiced cider, Christmas music and Christmas light viewing from now to December 25. Whee!


Sunday Stealing: The Bearded Questions

What is some of your favorite music?

Maroon 5, The Weeknd, Bruno Mars, Justin Bieber's current album (is it too late now to say sorry not sorry? :p), Train, Matchbox Twenty

List your three favorite scents.
fresh shower, spiced cider, coffee

How do you ground yourself or recharge?
head outside and get closer to nature

Any ways you treat or spoil yourself?
I buy a Starbucks coffee beverage.

Besides your blog, do you have a creative past-time?
I used to write- short stories, poems, songs. Used to make videos. I haven't done anything creative in a while. I may have to make a Hobby Lobby stop soon.

Share something difficult you've been through.
When my dad was dying, Lauren was very ill. I traveled to upstate New York to be with my father in his final days, but it was really hard to leave Lauren, hard to be with Dad at the hospital where he was suffering so terribly, and hard to know how to balance needs there and at home. Just one of the worst weeks EVER.

What helps you fall asleep?
a cool, dark room, bundled up under the covers

What is one strength and one weakness of yours?
strength- remembering song lyrics
weakness- not remembering names

Have you ever received a letter or written one to someone else?
Uh... yes. What is this, 2095?

What makes you feel powerful, what breathes life into you?
a powerful song, like Muse's "Uprising"

What's your favorite thing to do at night?
go out to dinner and a show or concert

If you could go back to any era, what would it be?
the 1950's

Your favorite things to wear at home?
a flowy sundress

If you could be immortal or have an extremely long life span which would you pick and why?
I would be immortal. It would be very empowering to have no fear of death.

Tell us about something positive you have done for yourself or someone recently.
I just printed all of our insurance cards for our cars. Yeah, baby!

One thing you like about your appearance?
that I look like my mom and dad

Something that makes you feel better after a hard day?
relaxing on the couch

If you have one, name a favorite book and movie.
No favorite books lately. My all-time favorite movie is Love Actually.

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A Christmas Carol

Sunday, December 4, 2016

Well, well, well. Scroll on down to the last paragraph of this NY Times article to see that it is completely sane to put tape over your webcam, thankyouverymuch.

Just saying. :)

We saw A Christmas Carol at Zach Friday night. Jeff and I both thought it was the traditional play, but were very pleasantly surprised to find it is actually a musical version, using current popular hits to accompany the traditional story! So everyone is in Victorian clothing and the set is of that time, but they're belting out today's Billboard hits. It's always this way, but they use different music each year. Awesome!

Greater Tuna's Jaston Williams plays Scrooge, perfectly. There are a lot of great singers in the show, but I have to mention a few freakin' amazing voices in particular- Kenny Williams (Ghost of Christmas Past, Mr. Entertainment), Chanel Haynes-Schwartz (Ghost of Christmas Present- a remarkable energy and gorgeous voice), Paul Sanchez (Bob Cratchit with his beautiful rendition of "Oh Holy Night") and Marianel Marquez (Marta Cratchit... OH MIGOSH that girl can SING!). Marianel sings "Halo" and the entire theater is silent, many brought to tears, until she finishes, then the place goes nuts.


It is a really fun show that will leave you smiling and ready for the Christmas season!

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Chili Season

Saturday, December 3, 2016

On our way to lunch in the cold rain today, we were talking about having chili sometime this week. We talked about chili dogs and chili fries. I said chili fries sounded really good, because I haven't had them in years. Then, at lunch, they had chili cheese fries.

Jeff: You should get the chili cheese fries!
Me: Nah. I don't have any idea if they're any good here. I want good chili cheese fries, so if they're shitty, I'll have to have them again.
Jeff: Chili cheese fries are never shitty.

Probably true.


Saturday 9: Take My Breath Away (1996)
Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) When were you last breathless?

walking the neighborhood the other day

2) This is the love theme from Top Gun, and the romance was between a pilot and his instructor. Have you ever had a crush on a teacher? 
I had a big time crush on my freshman year American History professor at A&M.

3) The pilots in Top Gun all had cool nicknames -- including Maverick, Goose, Merlin, Cougar and Stinger. Give yourself a cool pilot name.
Curie

4) The actress who played the instructor, Kelly McGillis, owns Kelly's Caribbean Bar/Grill and Brewery in Key West. It's known for its cheese and beer dip appetizer, served with warm pretzels. What's one of your favorite between meal snacks? 
apples with peanut butter

5) The group who recorded this week's song is called Berlin, but they're really from Southern California. Have you ever been to Berlin? How about Southern California?
I have been to both Berlin and Southern California (San Diego).

6) Lead singer Terri Nunn has a weekly radio show, Unbound on KCSN. How often do you listen to the radio? Do you tune in for music, comedy, news or talk?
I always listen in the car, usually to Hits1 on Sirius. I've listened to the comedy station sometimes on long trips.

7) In 1986, when this song was popular, PeeWee's Playhouse premiered. While ostensibly for children, PeeWee Herman's show had many, many adult viewers. Do you watch still watch any kid's shows?
I'll watch Spongebob on occasion.

8) Robert Pattinson, the actor who played Edward the vampire in the Twilight series, was born in 1986. Have you read the Twilight books? Seen the movies?
I have not read the books. I saw the first two movies, I think.

9) Random question: In an alternate universe, which of these professions would you like to find yourself in -- United States senator, Ivy League professor, or imminent psychiatrist?
Ivy League professor

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